How do I stop playing the victim?
Attributing outcomes to individual strength or flaws is problematic if we don't learn to recognise the role of circumstances and the complex interactional factors in life that lead to said outcomes.
If we can learn to appreciate the role that the system plays in individual choices, I think this could help us break unhelpful and automatic biased thinking patterns. Perhaps the key to making better decisions is to learn how to think more systemically rather than individualistically.
I talk about this in more detail on the Huddle Wisdom Podcast; and I recommend tuning in to Episode 9 ('Stop blaming and Complaining). Stop blaming. Just live.
It's hard to raise emotionally sensitive kids.
But you don't have to feel so stuck.
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Although we can't control the world or their feelings we can be positively influential and do away with the friction in your interactions with them.
The way to do that is through empathic connection and I want to give you some keys to help you get on track and stay on track.
