Here’s a common scenario that many of you will be familiar with.

A child is nervous about giving a presentation at school.

They tell their parents they are worried.

The parents start thinking about how to make the situation easier.

Could they present only to the teacher?

Could they record it at home?

Could they avoid the presentation?

The child might feel better.

Perhaps the anxiety settles.

Then, a few months later, another presentation comes up.

And the same worry returns.

This pattern appears often.

Parents want to help. They are watching their child experience something uncomfortable and they want to reduce that discomfort.

The difficulty is that children learn from these moments.

When a child feels anxious and completes the presentation, they discover that anxiety can be present while they continue with the task.

They may notice that the feeling changes.

They may learn that they can cope.

This is how confidence grows.

When anxiety leads to avoiding the situati...